to God hates Divorce, a website created for people who are going
through the storms of marital separation and divorce. Let me introduce
myself. I am a stander, one who is standing in the gap for my husband,
the complete - total healing and restoration to one another, of
our marriage, our family’s, to God and standing firm on the
promises of God.
I am standing in faith that
God will do for you and me what he has done for others. For God
is NOT a respector of persons, his Word tells us so. I also believe
that it is not God’s Will for your marriage or mine to end,
no matter if a divorce decree has been legally issued or not. God
is a God of covenant and He will stand with you in your marriage
covenant! Even if it appears your spouse thinks a totally different
way! God knows the heart of man and only God can change a heart
of stone to one of flesh.
This is a journey that you
have embarked upon, a wonderful journey with the Creator of Heaven
and earth. I believe if you are standing on His promises you have
been called by the great I AM to do so.
Ezekiel 22:30 (King
30And I sought for a man among them, that should make up the
hedge, and stand in the gap before me for the land,
that I should not destroy it: but I found none. (Emphasis mine)
This website is also offered
to you so you can know that much of what you are going through and
feeling is normal. It is my hope and prayer that you will understand
that you are not alone in this. It is my hope that you will be encouraged;
maybe even learn about the things your feeling, going through and
get some insight about so many different things happening in your
life right now.
The men and women that come
here are of all denominations and backgrounds. You see the enemy
is not choosey on who he attacks. I have come to understand that
your marriage and mine have been a target because satan knows it
hurts God the Father. For God created marriage and family. Marriage
and family’s are the very core structure of God’s way
of doing things. He is the Father who sent His Son, to be sin for
our sin and through Jesus life, death and resurrection we are in
the family, heirs to the kingdom of Christ! God the Father will
correct us for we are His children and because we are His children
He will also teach us, heal us and He will also bless us. Just like
any good father on earth would treat his children, but only better!
Marriage and family is also
the very tie that binds society! When there is a breakdown of this,
society begins to breakdown as well. This is another target of satan.
This breakdown in society is becoming more evident every day as
you watch the news on your TV. But you can fight back! Fight the
good fight of faith! And you have to know, this is not your battle
it is the Lord’s!
2 Chronicles 20:17
(New International Version)
You will not have to fight this battle. Take up your
positions; stand firm and see the deliverance the LORD
will give you, O Judah and Jerusalem. Do not be afraid;
do not be discouraged. Go out to face them tomorrow, and
the LORD will be with you.' " (Emphasis mine)
This website offers resources for you to explore. These resources
are marriage ministry websites and websites of some of my favorite
core teaching principal websites. There are also suggested books
you can read and yahoo groups you can join for encouragement.
There is also a chat room
for you to fellowship with other believers who are also standing
for their marriages and are or have gone through all the same trials
and tribulations you are going through. We offer up prayer in the
chat room as well and the price of admission is a praise!
There is also offered a section
for prayer requests, praises and testimonies from people who marriages
have been restored by the miraculous hand of God.
is a section of my own experiences with the Lord and His awesome
way he deals with me through this walk with Him. They were written
and are written for encouragement.
And lastly, get in to a good
Bible based church if you are not already in one. Don’t fret
if everyone does not believe exactly the way you believe. Right
now there may be members in your church that don’t understand
yet what you are doing. But you do need a good foundation in the
word of God.
Do not let any website, book,
TV evangelist or group substitute your time in His Word. The Bible
is your best friend so to speak and nothing can replace the infallible
word of God. As a matter of fact make Christ your best friend and
spend time with Him and share with Him the way you would any best
friend. In part this is why God allowed this to happen in your life,
because He desires a relationship with you and for some of us it
was the only way He could get our attention. God want to be a part
of every aspect of your life. He desires to do the same for your
spouse, children and anyone you possibly could care for.
Love in Christ,